Hera Yunita || (Revisi) Your Word Kill Me

       Bully is the act and treatment of oppression carried out by a person or group of people to show their strength to a person or group. In the technological era like today, it is very easy for a person or group to do the bladder. Even social media is being used as a media to oppress others. From this bladder behavior causes many negative impacts on the victim. Such as experiencing mental disorders, decreased both academic achievement and work / career, to the reckless behavior of suicide.
     

        Mental disorders in bladder victims usually experience depression, sleep disorders, your confidence decreases so it tends to make victims of bladder self-injury. Mental disorders result from the bad treatment they get. In fact, according to The American Journal of Psychiatry quoted from kilkdokter.com states that those who are victims of bullying during childhood will experience mental disorders for forty years thereafter. The impact of mental disorders due to bullying in childhood is more dangerous until it reaches forty years after the victim gets bullying.  In addition, based on a study conducted by Eunice Kennedy Shriver of the National Institute of Child Health and Human Development in the United States, anyone involved in bullying, be it victims or perpetrators, is at high risk of experiencing depression. The risk of depression can be even higher for victims of bladder via electronics, for example through social media, short messages, or emails, compared to direct bullying. bullying through social media has a greater impact on victims, because it involves many people. Reporting from forbes.com in The Psychological Effects Of Bullying Last Well Into Adulthood, Study Finds also mentioned that children who are "just" victims of bullying (who have never been bullying) have a high risk of experiencing depressive disorders, anxiety disorders, generalized anxiety disorder (chronic anxiety that is characterized by excessive worry and tension), and agoraphobia (basic fear that comes from feeling trapped in public places, when someone feels difficult to escape, and fear there will be no help if someone experiences panic attacks) when mature. Mental disorders caused by the perpetrators of bullying will not only have a short-term impact but can also have a long-term impact on victims of bullying.

        bullies will tend to experience a decline in both academic and work / career achievements. According to Dr. Umar Utoyo, members of the Central Java DPRD Commission E bullying has an impact, both for victims, perpetrators and people who witnessed it. For victims, for example the impact was varied like, depression, anger, low levels of student attendance in the teaching and learning process "It even had an impact on low student academic achievement, decreased intelligence (IQ) scores, and students' analytical skills," Umar said in the Hall of the Central Java Provincial Health Office, Jalan Piere Tendean, Saturday (3/11). bullying has a bad impact on students or workers because it can decrease performance both at school and at work . besides that, according to Muhammad Riduan from class XI A TKJ who often see, hear and even experience bullying behavior. According to Duan, Bullying was initially based on mutual mockery, joking. But over time being a frontal has even started to be racist and contains SARA. Starting from taunting each other until finally the victim is being afraid to go to school and automatically the victim's achievement in learning will decrease. "Harassment or bullying has an impact on the condition of children which results in decreased academic achievement, social behavior, physical disruption and emotional changes," wrote the official Instagram account of the Ministry of Education and Culture (Kemdikbud) @ Kemdikbud.ri, Monday (20/1/1 / 2020). Bullying impacts both the perpetrators and the victims. However, the greatest impact will be felt by the victim, especially for a student who is still in school. Because when the victim gets bullying from someone, her academic achievement will decrease. 

        The worst impact of bullies is that they tend to hurt themselves even to the point of committing suicide. Global data from WHO in 2018 shows that bullying is the most common cause of death in the age group of 15-29 years. The results of a survey from the Global School-Based Student Health Survey in Indonesia in 2015 found that 1 out of 20 teenagers had felt suicidal. Suicidal ideation reaches 5.9 percent in adolescent girls and 3.4 percent in adolescent boys. As many as 20.7 percent of adolescents have also experienced bullying.The desire to commit suicide as a result of bullying is more experienced by women than men. In another case there was a video of a child crying hysterically to want to commit suicide because bullied circulating on social media. This video was shared by the mother of the child bully victim. Reporting from news.com.au, Yarraka Bayles has a child suffering from dwarfism (midget) named Quaden. People who have abnormalities tend to get bullies that are bigger than normal people in general because of physical imperfections. Research conducted by Riauskina et al (2005) also found that victims felt a lot of negative emotions (anger, resentment, resentment, depression, fear, shame, sadness, discomfort, threatened) when experiencing bullying, but were helpless in the face of bullying. In the long run these emotions can lead to feelings of inferiority and the feeling that they are worthless. According to Borowsky IW, Taliaferro LA, BJ McMorris (in the Journal of Adolescent Health, 2013), there is a strong relationship between internal and external factors of verbal and social bullying that result in suicide attempts. Bullying committed by bullies can have a huge impact on victims. Not only mental disorders and decreased academic achievement, the impact of bullies can encourage the victim's desire to carry out a suicide attempt. 

        Quoted from CNN, a recent study from the California Healthy Kids Survey in 2019 showed, bullying has short-term and long-term effects for adolescents. Teenagers who are abused by their friends for whatever reason have long-term mental health impacts that are worse than children who are treated badly by adults. Therefore bullying behavior in any form has a negative impact both for the victim and for the bully.